Confessions of a Loveaholic...

Do something that you are afraid of.  Start something you have always wanted to try.  Look out of the window and wait for guidance.  Take a personality test and see how well it matches what you think of yourself.  Write down things that you notice about yourself.  Do the thing that makes you lose track of time.  Listen to praise about yourself.  Listen to criticism about yourself.  Meditate.  Be idle for a while.  Analyze your dreams.  Create something.  Think of the thing you most want to give to others.  Listen.  Take a walk.  Spend time in nature.  Smile, then think of all the things you have.  Smile, then think of all the things you desire.  Feel all of your emotions.  Be honest with yourself.  Purposely take on a challenge.  Accidentally take on a challenge.  Live with uncertainty.  Accept who you are.  Make self improvements.  Become...

The power struggle between men and women is one that is ongoing and never-ending. Both genders come into dating with their own agendas, and this is where the miscommunication starts. Agendas may shift if the individuals involved become enamored with one another. But, from their first interaction, there is always a plan of action. The plan of action is to achieve power over the other person and get them to lean towards their goal. Some have no intentions on abusing the power. They only want their fair share and are willing to share. Others come into the game knowing what they want from the other person and are willing to manipulate to achieve their final goal; even if it means hurting the other person. The power shift between men and women goes as follows: In the beginning the woman is the one with the power and the man willingly gives it to her. Why? Because she has something he wants. He wants to have sex with her. His plan may shift later after he gets to know her. Then he may want...

Apparently the vagina is a source of consternation for many women, resulting in a booming industry of products and services geared specifically to the task of vaginal maintenance, if you will. There is a quick fix to control anything from vaginal smell, to vaginal “roominess” for lack of a better word (see above photo for evidence).  Alternet  did a little more research on the topic and came up with a list of the top 6 “problems” that women claim to have with their nether-regions, as well as the “fixes” that have been invented to help us gals cope with the burdens of our femininity. We’re sending a big fat sarcastic thanks to the person that decided that vaginas need their own brand of mint in order to “taste” better. Check out this list of 6 weird things that women do to their vaginas: 1.) Problem:  Your Vagina Smells Bad Solution:  Vaginal Deodorant There are currently a number of  vaginal deodorants for sale right at your local drug store. If you feel the n...

*Inspired by  this right here  and the all around awesomeness that is-  Jacylyn Friedman. * I deeply want to eradicate any language that describes sex as an act that is given by a woman to a man:  Are you gonna let him hit? Should I give him some? She gave it up last night, dog.  Rather, I should say I want to destroy the attitudes about sex that implicate it as anything less than an equal exchange between two consenting parties. If we didn’t look at sex as a woman “giving it up”, then I wouldn’t care less if a woman was inclined to say she “gave him some”. Because the implication would be that he gave  her  something, too. I’ve gotten the same questions repeatedly from friends regarding my past casual sex partners (not necessarily the specific men in question, but the entire concept of a casual sex partner as a whole):  “Does he really respect you?”, ” Are you f*cking or getting f*cked?”, “Why would you give it up to someone who doesn’t want to b...

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh... don't tell anyone but the Zodiac sign are a guilty pleasure of mine. I am always wondering how true the zodiacs are when it comes to one's personality and the way they may carry themself.  Astrology is so much more fun than astronomy where you have to learn factual data about the universe and the objects that inhabits the solar system. Astrology deals with the signs of the zodiac as it relates to month and day of your birth. Because of that factual evidence about astrology everyone was born under one of the zodiac signs because signs were quite popular in the 80's and it was almost like a good morning greeting for someone to ask you about your zodiac signs. Because sexuality is a part of the oldest profession, it is unlikely that the sexual connotations of your zodiac sign will be outdated. A book written called Sex Signs by Judith Bennett talks about every woman's astrological sign to sexual prowess. The twelve zodiac signs are Aries, Taurus,...