Confessions of a Loveaholic...

For 2010, when it comes to love, I do vow to be open-minded, positive and keep my baggage in check. I send out prayers and wishes to only have encounters with men who add to me and those who can make me better. What I can say for sure, is in 2010 I will stay away from: broke-ass negros, gang members, fake Nicki Minaj's skinny jean wearers, posers, fakes, bad aggressive/violent attitudes, gold fronts/any fronts, pants hanging so low I can see your boxers,chain so low it touches my dick wearers, Gucci Mane/Jay-Z/Kanye/Trey/Drake wannabes, all maybes and could have beens. Everyone can't be a rapper, a producer, or a clothing line star so I am staying away from them also. In 2010, I am allergic to all bullshit and I will not settle for less when I know I am one of the best. There is no reason for resolutions, vow to be a better person daily. Dream Big, Love Hard, Laugh More, Forgive Quick. Nothing is promised but we have made it to 2010. Enjoy it and...

1. Go to a library or online a read about the female anatomy, know what the hell is going and know your cycle. 2. Shower as frequently as you need to. Normally that's once or twice a day. Use Dove sensitive skin formula soap, the bar not liquid. Do not use any liquid soap or bubble bath that contains Sodium Laureth Sulfate on your vaginal area. This can cause yeast infections and vaginal imbalance is SOME people. Most liquid soap products and all bubble baths contain this agent. So use with caution. Be mindful that in order to keep your vaginal flora balanced, you can't be flushing it in and out with all kinds of chemicals and what not...that will throw your PH balance off. 3. Bath at least 3 times a week. It softens your skin, cleanses the pores through out your body, soothes your vagina, helps exfoliate dead skin, and relaxes the muscles. Use lightly scented bath salts (Epsom or Dr.Teals bath salts...which can be found at WAL-MART), also, Dr. Bronner's liquid soaps ...

About guys: 1) 94% of men lie about their dick size. According to condom manufacturers, only 6% of men need to use extra large condoms. 2) The average man is 4-5 inches long when erect; no matter what you have heard ladies, that's the truth. Incidentally the average vaginal capacity is only 6 inches, for you women who think you can handle king dong. 3) 80% of American men are circumcised, though Pediatrics say it is not necessary. 4) No matter what all the ads say nothing but time can make your penis grow. (most men reach the end of their growth by the early 20's) 5) There is no correlation between penis size and shoe size, hand size, or nose size. 6) Blue balls does exist! It's technically called "prostatic congestion." 7) Only 16% of men shave their privates . About the Ladies: 1) Only 9% of women around the globe consider themselves "attractive" (20% of British women do). 43% of women use the term "natural", 24% say...

Touched by an Angel By: Maya Angelou We, unaccustomed to courage exiles from delight live coiled in shells of loneliness until love leaves its high holy temple and comes into our sight to liberate us into life. Love arrives and in its train come ecstasies old memories of pleasure ancient histories of pain. Yet if we are bold, love strikes away the chains of fear from our souls We are weaned from our timidity In the flush of love's light we dare be brave And suddenly we see that love costs all we are and will ever be. Yet it is only love which sets us free.

1. On a scale of 1-10, how good was your 2009? I would say it started at a 5, I was unemployed and was having issues with the ex-boyfriend and the boy-toy at that time.... Now that it is coming to an end 2009 is ending at a 9, I am gainfully employed, in grad school (be finished in April), the Fab 4 reunion, no boyfriend = no stress, seducing and sexxing as I see fit...lol 2. What are your favorite/naughtiest/sexiest/most fun 2009 memories? This year I made love to a man in a conference room (minusing the sordid details) that overlooked the city.... Ever had an orgasm with NYC skyline as a backdrop... I DID!!! 3. What’s the one thing you thought you would never do, but did in 2009? I didn't think I would have the courage to walk away from my ex and the bad cyclic relationship we were in but I did it. 4. What do you want to change in 2010? I am going to try harder, let "things" go faster and enjoyed the moment longer and more often... 5. Wha...

What makes you happy? What is your absolute realtionship breaker and why? Why do you stay when all the signs say leave? Why do we fall in love with someone's potential instead of the person we are presented with? I would love to hear your thoughts to get this blog jumpstarted.... My perspective: I used to be stuck to certain prototype of man. A certain height, a certain complexion but as I get older. I have learn it doesn't matter how a man looks but rather about the qualities he possess. I am happy with a man that is kind and considerate. Of course I love a man with a rough edge but he has to still have an open mind to experience new things and expand his horizons. I want a man who isnt afraid to profess his love for me, protects and provides for me. Relationship breakers for me are: (1) blatant liars because that is a sign of blatant disrespect and then (2) no progression, we can not be dating and there is no progress. I don't have time to waste nor do I hav...