Confessions of a Loveaholic...

Sometimes the best way to express yourself is by putting pen to paper. There is something about poetry that I have always loved. The short stanzas, the lines that say so little yet convey so much. May a glimpse of my writings convey what I was feeling in the moment.... Enjoy 😘 Her moans.   The raindrops.   Our love.   -Sundays her eyes   stole my heart,   her smile gave me life, her presence makes me high, her touch   has left me breathless.

Last post that I wrote of my adventures in love was back in 2011. A lot has changed since then... a whole lot.  Although I have been engaged 5 times, I never got married.  I had a beautiful baby boy---he is 7 now.  I have worked hard to live in my truth and started to swim in the lady pond and I love it there. I now identify as "queer" and I am becoming increasing interested in polyamory.  Queer is a word that clarifies that I’m not straight and ties me to the larger queer community, but it doesn’t categorize me as gay. The vagueness of the term is intentional— queer is an identity created for anyone outside of the heterosexual norm and meant to be inclusive and create a sense of acceptance. But what, exactly, does it mean to be queer? Could  you  be queer? To clarify what the term means,  Cosmo  spoke with  Kelly Wise, PhD ,  a queer sex therapist, about how queer evolved from a gay slur to an encompassing—and even  welco...