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It's been a while...

Last post that I wrote of my adventures in love was back in 2011.
A lot has changed since then... a whole lot. 
  • Although I have been engaged 5 times, I never got married. 
  • I had a beautiful baby boy---he is 7 now. 
  • I have worked hard to live in my truth and started to swim in the lady pond and I love it there. I now identify as "queer" and I am becoming increasing interested in polyamory. 
Queer is a word that clarifies that I’m not straight and ties me to the larger queer community, but it doesn’t categorize me as gay. The vagueness of the term is intentional— queer is an identity created for anyone outside of the heterosexual norm and meant to be inclusive and create a sense of acceptance. But what, exactly, does it mean to be queer? Could you be queer? To clarify what the term means, Cosmo spoke with Kelly Wise, PhD, a queer sex therapist, about how queer evolved from a gay slur to an encompassing—and even welcoming—word used by folks all across the LGBTQ spectrum (and, controversially, even some straight folks too).  To learn more: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a25243218/queer-meaning-definition/

So the journey continues.... the potential pool has simply expanded 😉😉😉😉😉😜😜😜😜. While you know I love to share the juicy details but first... let's get reacquainted.

 For all the newcomers, I say hello and to my loyal followers....Welcome Back!

 Here I like to talk about everything from my steamy trysts to interesting articles/quotes that empower us all. If there are topics that you would like to talk about... feel free to put them in the comments and I will work them as as I can.
See you soon!

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