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How Many is too Many???



A question came into the Ask Carrie Box... How many sexual partners is too many for a woman before you stop taking her seriously?

Now I am probably the worst person to ask this question to, because unlike most I don't stand to either side of this topic. What number is too high? No number and every number... Its seems mostly relative to how many partners the man has had himself that make him feel a way about how many a woman should have.... And her acceptable number is always lower than his!

So if he only had 5, she shouldn't have more than 3 but it he's had 20 she shouldn't have more than 10.. I wonder what number like rappers have? Being that their number is usually in the hundreds....

Men are known for the "want to have my cake and eat it too" syndrome, you guys always seem to want a freaky woman who is open-minded and handles her business in the bedroom yet somehow you seem to want her to have that mindset having never had sex with anyone before you... or you want to be the best thing to have hit her thus far.. (pun intended)

Basically guys are just biased and unjust... Men look at the number of women they slay as a badge of honor and manhood, while women should look at it as a shroud of dishonor and humiliation!

Bump that! Ladies are sexual creatures too and unless you guys are out there slinging other men, chances are every new notch in your belt means another woman is boinking...duh

Maybe women should start disqualifying men by their number of women they slayed too then maybe yall wouldn't be as proud of your hoe-isms. 

I think it should has less to do with the number and more to do with her level of privacy regarding her business.. and her behavior in the street.... how does she carry herself?  That what you should be judging her on... If you wouldn't know how many men a woman slept with unless she told you there should be no reason to not take her serious, if fact maybe she shouldn't take you serious for being so immature about a topic that has absolutely no impact on the quality of your future relationship.

Obviously if you heard about her consistently for years before you met her..or she screwed everyone you know,  then yeah maybe you shouldn't take her home to mom dukes..but then again even Superhead has a husband now lololol.. so I guess hoes really can be housewives *shrug*

A woman may talk about being a freak or may want to be a freak, but surely don't expect her to know to do those things remaining a virgin.


just my thoughts.
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